Gay Sex Language

Found this pretty dictionary on Gay Britain.

Gay life and sex has its own language. Getting what you want, or saying no to what you don’t want, is easier if you understand what’s being said. Here’s a simple guide to words you might hear on the gay scene:

A
anal = anal sex
arse/ass (also butt/bum/batty) = bottom/backside
arsehole/hole = anus

B
barebacking (BB) = anal sex without condoms
backroom (also darkroom) = area in a gay club or sauna where sex takes place
balls = testicles
bear = large gay man with body and facial hair
bent/batty man (also fag/faggot) = gay
blow job = oral sex
bottom = man who takes the passive, or receptive, role in anal sex (receives the penis)
bulge (also packet) = penis and testicles
butch = masculine
butt/bum/batty (also arse/ass) = bottom/backside

C
camp = effeminate
chems = party drugs
chemsex = sex on drugs
chicken (also twink) = young gay man
civil partnership = gay marriage
the clap = gonorrhoea
clap clinic = sexual health clinic
in the closet = hiding your sexuality
cock (also dick/knob) = penis
to come = ejaculate semen (see ‘cum’)
come out = not hiding your sexuality
cop off = find a sex partner
cottage = toilet
to cottage/go cottaging = look for sex in toilets
crabs = pubic lice (a sexually transmitted infection)
cruise = look for sex
cruising ground/area = public place, especially parks, where men look for sex
cum = sperm/semen (see ‘to come’ and ‘pre-cum’)
cut/uncut = circumcised/not circumcised

D
darkroom (also backroom) = area in a gay club or sauna where sex takes place
dick (also cock/knob) = penis
drag/in drag = wearing women’s clothes
Durex (also rubber/johnnie) = condom
dyke = lesbian

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My Little Secret

I realized that I’m a gay when I was 15. It was the time when I understood that I’m turned-on by handsome guys rather then by pretty girls. At first I felt uneasy, as I knew the common ways people treat gays, but still I couldn’t change anything. So I preferred not to struggle with myself, but still keep it all in secret. At the age of 16 I fell in love with a boy of my age – the son of our new neighbors. His name was Igor, he was tall and handsome, with green eyes and a charming smile – such a girls’ heartbreaker… girls’ and mine. At the moment, when I saw him for the 1st time, I realized it’s my fate.
We got acquainted and became friends, as we had plenty in common. But I kept my little secret inside, playing the role of a ‘normal’ guy and masturbating each night while dreaming about his strong young body. Still each further day we spent together it was becoming harder and harder for me to hide my reaction at his masculine beauty, I knew it wouldn’t take too long for me to hand out my feelings.
It was Sunday, mom was fussing around the kitchen, as for me, I was trying to stretch myself for the first time with a dildo I bought in a sex shop. In front of me were pansy magazines and Igor’s photos. I was imagining us both in a magic land of gay love… Suddenly the door of my room burst open (I forgot to lock it up!) and horrified me saw Igor with big eyes on his face staring down at my naked body in a provocative pose.
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